Problem No 2 - Parents worry about when to let their teenager go

when the fact is that it is the teenager who is letting the parents go.

Problem No 1 - Parents only see what they want to see

For example, they want their children to read or watch "Winnie the Pooh" but they do not want their children to follow what the author (of Winnie the Pooh), AA Milne, advocates:

"One of the advantages of being disorderly is that one is constantly making exciting discoveries."